lately my parents keep forcing me to do things that i really don't like, really really don't like. but to them as usual is all for my own good. i did once because wanted to make them happy but seriously i don't feel happy or nice doing it.
so what should i choose?...keep doing it to make them happy but sacrifice my own happiness? bare in mind that is a long term decision so i may be hook up in this for the coming years.
solution 1 - discuss with them
FAILED - they still think is good for me and i'm so stupid not doing it. and they still not happy about my decision
solution 2 - keep talking to make them understand
FAILED - my mum will go on with her lecture and said that they want me to do something also i cannot ...T.T and things become more ugly..
so now the dilemma comes in the picture, how should i choose??
if you're in my shoe what is your pick??
pls enlighten me..XOxo
me too facing the same prob dear..
ReplyDeleteppl forcing u. tried to change u. even want to clean you up into another kind of identity.
but guess what?
who cares? u is u!
but that ppl is my parents...i love them and i want them to be happy...but i also love myself..aiks
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